Q&A: Relationship Edition

Wednesday, 4 November 2015

Let's be real, whatever questions I've got on, 99% of the time will be about Ridhuan. I've actually stop using my now because most of the asks I receive are pretty repetitive and it can get exhausting answering repeated questions, and also because I got bored of the app heh. 

Some of these questions also frequently asked by my family/friends so I thought that it would be a good idea to blog about it this week. (And also because I thought that writing in this format would be less torturous to read as compared to if I were to type them in paragraphs). 

Shall we? 

  1. Who is he and how did you meet?
    Ridhuan and I were secondary schoolmates. He was a year below me but we graduated together. In all honesty, I've never seen him in school throughout those five years. He studied engineering in NYP and is now serving his national service (NS) as a police officer. In 2012, he found me on twitter one day, DMed me and from there, we started talking.

    Our first meeting was after I ended shift when I was on attachment that same year.

  2. How long have you been together?
    Two years.

  3. How did he propose to you?
    He never did.

  4. Has he met your family? And have you met his?
    Yes and yes. Very very briefly though. I met his parents during his graduation and when he was passing out and he met mine during Hari Raya. 

  5. Why don't you leave him despite how much he has hurt you?
    I've come to realize that everyone is gonna hurt everyone, but everyone has the right to choose who's worth hurting for - so Ridhuan's my choice and I'm happy with it.

  6. Have you talked about marriage?
    I've tried but the moment I did, it just made me realize how much I'm not ready for it. And don't get me wrong, I love Ridhuan and we both made a crazy and dangerous decision to stay together no matter what. Both of us have not reached that emotional level to actually see each other as husband and wife - and we're okay with that.

That's it for today! 
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  1. Darling, this post is so beautiful! Awesome! I can’t wait to see the new one!

    p.s. new post about how I met Victoria Beckham already on my blog

    Diana Cloudlet

  2. I guess it's true love and no one can stop both of you from being happy together. :)

    Have a nice day!